Monday, March 24, 2008

Gimme red!

Ask any girl - any Indian girl, I mean.. She'll tell you about the magic that is mehendi (a.k.a maridani).

You usually get it done before a big event - a wedding, birthday, diwali, maybe.. even a cousin's engagement is excuse enough. Or during the holidays when you're jobless and have nothing better to do..

If you are lucky, you get to watch as the leaves are grounded and made into a nice paste (don't add too much water - it'll run; not too less, either - it won't flow; add a little lemon - it'll make your hand redder) and made into cute cones with the bottoms cut.

You watch as your mom/sister/neighbour/friend races patterns on your palm. The paste feels cool against your skin. You tell then to change the pattern here(you don't like mangoes), you ask them to draw some leaves just here.. But in the end it doesn't matter, because the design is so intricate that you find it hard to make out the original pattern..

You strech your hand out for an hour - two hours. You can't hold anything - can't read a book - can't use the mouse - cant study(!!!!:-)) - can't eat.. So you sit and watch tv. Or sleep - unless of course, your mom is very particular about mehendi stains on the covers.

Once every half an hour, you squeeze lemon over your palm to stop it from drying too fast, but it dries anyway and little pieces of the mehendi fall off and you try to peek at it from the sides to see how red it has become. You imagine it becoming really red and you picture you showing it off to all your friends who will "ooh" and "aah" over it. You wonder if it'll go with the dress you're gonna wear the next day (No jeans and tee for a week! Stick to the indian wear!)

Finally, it's time to take it off. You, of course, aren't supposed to use water. You scrub it off, dirtying the floor, but who cares! Your hand now has pretty red patterns on it!

Of course, you find it hard to eat for the rest of the week considering the smell takes off the flavour of anything your bring near the nose, but that's a small price to pay!

3 comments:

Roshan George said...

Mehendi looks awesome. Yes, that's it! It's also called maridani, isn't it? I vaguely remember that. The word 'mehendi' always seemed funny because I remembered the other one. That's nice. It's hard not knowing an Indian language.

Cones with the bottoms cut off are still cones, reminds me of cones of red clay I used to make to play with when I was a kid. Add brick sand to make it bright orange. Such beauty.

You watch TV? And you change channels telepathically I suppose? Or have you mastered using the remote with your toes? TV watchers, I'll never understand them.

Ah smell and taste, so inextricably linked. Go animal, eat straight out of the plate.

Spica said...

how did you suppose i called you that night? you use the tip of your nails, buddy!

Roshan George said...

Such talent, I'm impressed.